dilemmas

so it turns out that C can't come to New York with me in February. we were supposed to go for 5 days and i was really looking forward to it but she has to work. things in the food industry have been slow so the weekend that we were going to be away turns out to be the busiest in recent memory. i've attempted to reschedule and the next available weekend is the first weekend of March. don't get me wrong, i wouldn't mind going to new york twice but i don't want to ruin it and wear out my welcome. so my dilemma at the moment is this:

do i go in february and march? do i wait till march so both me and C can go at once? or do i just go in february?

i'm still working out all the drawbacks and benefits. i also need to work out my budget. i wish this was easier.